Finding Water in the Wilderness
When life feels brown and barren, God often asks one question: what do you have? This pastoral guide helps you steward small faith in wilderness seasons until the water comes.
Why wilderness seasons often precede God’s purpose
Wilderness seasons aren’t God’s punishment; they’re His classroom. When leaders in Scripture moved toward destiny, they rarely sidestepped hardship. We see this in stories where God’s people chose to seek Him before strategy, and where the chosen path was literally "the way through the wilderness of Edom." The desert strips self-reliance, exposes comforts we worship, and teaches dependence.
"And David strengthened himself in the Lord his God." — 1 Samuel 30:6
Behind the Words: David returned to Ziklag to find his home destroyed and his men ready to stone him. He was stripped of resources and support.
The Heart of It: Trials shape character more than they shape circumstances. Encouraging oneself in the Lord is an intentional act of faith that creates spiritual stamina.
Try This: When plans fail, rehearse what God has already done for you and let gratitude reshape your heart. Say aloud three past mercies and choose the next small step God points to.
Remember David at Ziklag. Those battle-weary men could have broken him, but he deliberately turned memory into worship. That discipline — recalling God's faithfulness instead of panicking — is a form of obedience.
There’s a hard truth to reckon with: if we're not obedient to do the word, then it will not prosper us. Listening without doing is incomplete faith. Scripture often reverses our instinct to wait for rescue before we act; action — faithful movement with God — can precede rescue.
Picture a parent returning to an emptied home after an eviction scare. The room is brown with worry. Instead of sinking into accusation, she kneels, lists three miracles she's seen in prayer, and sings through tears. That small act — calling memory into worship — becomes the first canal for God's water.
At one point the counsel was to "dig some ditches" because "the water was coming." That is practical language: prepare to receive what God is already bringing. Recall the image of a minister who repurposed cassette tapes from a guest house studio until broadcasts multiplied across hundreds of stations — God multiplies what’s offered in smallness.
Teaching Moment:
Behind the Words: 1 Samuel 30 tells of David returning to find devastation and betrayal.
The Heart of It: Encouraging yourself in the Lord is an intentional act of faith that creates spiritual stamina.
Try This: Imagine the brown living room of your life. Say aloud three faithful things God has done for you while lighting a candle or holding a photograph. Let that memory become your first act of worship, then take one small step God points to next.
Common misunderstanding: This is not positive thinking; it’s reorienting memory and worship toward God’s faithfulness.
How to keep a personal relationship with God in dry seasons
Your relationship with God is not a prize for spiritual experts; it’s the lifeline for ordinary people. When the path is unclear, practice listening — not information-gathering but relational attention. The Spirit leads step-by-step, and we learn to discern His nudges by practicing obedience in small things.
"Take the helmet of salvation, and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God." — Ephesians 6:17
Behind the Words: Hearing God is cultivated when we follow Him in the little things — a phone call made in faith, an invitation accepted, a kindness given — not only at mountaintop decisions.
The Heart of It: God trains hearing through small, repeated obediences.
Try This: Before big choices, ask: What step of obedience can I take today that reflects trust in God? Choose five minutes now to read a verse and speak it aloud.
That recurring question — "what do you have?" — shifts our focus from lack to stewardship. The widow with the jar of oil did not wait for abundance; she offered what she had. The prophet asked her to pour into many vessels; the oil kept flowing until she ran out of containers. The pattern is stewardship before overflow.
Start with a small altar in your daily rhythm. If you’re tempted to wait for the perfect time to pray or serve, choose five minutes now. Put your hand on a real need — a relationship, a job worry, a broken appliance — and say, "Lord, I bring this to You" rather than letting it crowd out communion.
Refuse the "wilderness mentality" that expects persistent failure. Combat it by cataloguing God's small mercies daily.
Teaching Moment:
Behind the Words: The narrative of Elijah and the widow (1 Kings 17) plays out in a famine where resources are gone; God instructs a woman to make bread for the prophet first.
The Heart of It: Trust is often proved by giving what remains, not by withholding until abundance arrives.
Try This: Tonight, take one small sacrificial act — a phone call of reconciliation, a ten-dollar gift, a prepared meal — and do it as an offering to God. Picture your hands pouring oil into many jars; see God’s multiplying power meet that faith.
Optional misunderstanding: This is not a prosperity formula that guarantees wealth; it’s a posture that lets God work through our obedience.
What obedience looks like when everything feels brown
Obedience in hardship is gritty. It is prayer at three a.m., the quiet decision to go speak to a hurting family member, the refusal to gossip when rumors swirl. It is the daily discipline to rehearse victory when it would be easier to rehearse defeat.
"Behold, I have created the smith... and I have created the destroyer to ruin." — Isaiah 54:16
Behind the Words: Isaiah reassures God’s people that the Lord ordains instruments used in history, promising protection and vindication.
The Heart of It: God’s sovereignty includes both the tools of conflict and the assurance that no weapon formed against us will ultimately prosper.
Try This: When trials feel orchestrated, remember God has not been surprised and His purposes are redemptive.
Obedience does not always feel rewarding immediately. Leaders who only seek God in crisis find their walk brittle. The choice is stark: live by a convenience faith that appears only in emergencies, or cultivate a daily walk that invites God’s favor and steadiness. When we practice obedience, God anoints us to carry tasks we cannot manage alone. That anointing is not magic; it’s partnership — God's empowerment meeting our humble yes.
Imagine being told to "dig some ditches." You stand in a dry creekbed, shovel in hand, sweat and suspicion on your brow. Neighbors pass, puzzled. The ditches look silly now. Then the cloud breaks. Water appears, and the channels you cut gather the life-giving flow. Obedience looks like that shovel in hand when the rain is only a rumor.
A ministry memory underscores this: a minister sat among cassette tapes, thinking there wasn’t enough for broadcast. By repurposing those tapes, messages later played on over 300 stations. The miracle didn’t begin with global strategy; it began with faithful reuse of what was present.
Fear of doing the wrong thing is real. God doesn’t override our free will, but He invites us to follow. Obedience is less about flawless execution and more about faithful alignment: step where God leads, even if the path goes through the wilderness.
Practical steps for obedience when discouraged:
- List three small acts of faith you can do today. Do one.
- Tell one person the truth about where you are and ask for prayer.
- Offer one small resource — time, a note of encouragement, a skill — for God’s use.
These acts are not heroic; they are faithful.
Encouragement for the road ahead
We won’t always understand the map God uses. Sometimes He sends us into the desert to teach, equip, and form tenderness for the needy. Sometimes He tells us to "dig some ditches" because water is on the way. Sometimes He asks, "what do you have?" and waits for our willing hands.
You are not alone in these soil-turning seasons. The Spirit is teaching us to hear, to pour, and to steward. If you are tempted to throw in the towel, remember again: if we're not obedient to do the word, then it is not going to prosper us. That is not condemnation; it is an invitation to participate.
Keep a memory journal of God’s past mercies. When you feel alone, rehearse those entries. Worship in the quiet. Encourage yourself in the Lord. Prepare the ditches.
One last scene to carry: after months of small obediences, you stand at the edge of a dry bed where earlier you dug channels. The sun breaks through, and water rushes in, filling the channels, the pots, the jars — more than you could have contained. You smile, you weep, and you begin to share.
Take one concrete step today: choose one small obedience and do it. Pour your little oil. God will meet you there.
Key Takeaways
- Seek God first in all situations.
- Encourage yourself through faith and personal testimonies.
- Use what you have for God's purposes and trust Him to provide.
- Be obedient even when faced with challenges.
- Remember that wilderness experiences are often necessary for growth.
Notable Quotes
"You may be in a wilderness and we think of wilderness. We think of a place that's brown, a place that is void of color. And it's very unappealing."
"We've got to learn how to store up the Word of God when we're going through the wilderness."
"Ask yourself, what do you have? And just begin to use what God has already put in your hands."